May
30,
2016
Dear
Friends,
For
many
Delawareans,
Memorial
Day
means
the
kick-off
to
a
summer
season
filled
with
sunny
and
fun
activities.
Whether
you’re
enjoying
the
First
State’s
five-star
beaches
or
celebrating
the holiday
with
a
BBQ
in
the
backyard,
I
want
to
wish
you
and
your
family
a
safe
and
special
Memorial
Day. But
we
all
know
the
true
meaning
of
this
holiday
is
to
give
thanks
for
the
sacrifices
made
by
our
troops,
our
veterans
and
their
families.
This
Memorial
Day
is
an
emotional
one
for
me.
Earlier
this
week,
I
returned to
Vietnam
with
President
Obama,
decades
after
serving
as
a
young
naval
flight
officer
in
the
Vietnam
War.
In
1991,
a
month
after
serving
my
last
P-3
mission
and
retiring
as
a
Navy
captain,
I
led
a
bipartisan,
six-member
congressional
delegation
of
Vietnam
veterans
back
to
Southeast
Asia.
It
was
during
that
first
delegation,
years
before
diplomatic
relations
were
restored
between
the
United
States
and
Vietnam,
when
I
witnessed
a
breakthrough
emerge
between
the
two
countries.
We’ve
come
a
long
way
in
our
relationship
with
Vietnam
since
I
first
visited
Southeast
Asia
during
the
middle
of
a
war
that
took
58,000
American
lives
and
many
more
Vietnamese
lives.
Yet,
somehow,
we
seem
to
have
reached
a
point
where
both
countries
are
prepared
to
let
bygones
be
bygones
and
to
look
for
ways
to
work
together
in
ways
that
wouldn’t
have
seemed
possible
not
that
many
years
ago.
I
hope
that
you
will
take
a
moment
to
read
my
op-ed
reflecting
on
my
recent
journey
back
to
Vietnam,
here
and
below
and
I
hope
that
you
and
your
loved
ones
have
a
safe
and
happy
Memorial
Day.
Earlier
this
week,
I
returned
to
Southeast
Asia
for
the
first
time
since
1998.
It
was
both
a
journey
back
in
time
and
a
look
ahead
to
the
future
of
U.S.
Vietnamese
relations.
Decades
ago,
I
came
to
this
part
of
the
world
as
a
young
naval
flight
officer
on
the
first
of
three
deployments
with
my
squadron
of
Navy
P-3
maritime
surveillance
aircraft,
a
unit
of
the
Seventh
Fleet.
We
flew
a
variety
of
missions
including
low-level
surveillance
operations
off
the
coast
of
Vietnam
and
Cambodia,
searching
for
among
other
things
infiltrator
trawlers
disguised
as
fishing
boats
attempting
to
resupply
the
Viet
Cong
in
their
efforts
to
overthrow
our
ally,
the
government
of
South
Vietnam.
With
the
Vietnam
war
winding
down,
I
completed
my
active
duty
tour
in
1973,
took
a
commission
in
the
Naval
Reserve
and
continued
to
fly
for
another
18
years
as
a
P-3
aircraft
mission
commander
until
the
end
of
the
Cold
War.
Along
the
way,
I
moved
to
Delaware,
earned
an
MBA
there,
was
elected
state
treasurer
at
age
29
and,
six
years
later,
became
Delaware’s
lone member
of
the
U.S.
House
of
Representatives.
Barely
a
month
after
flying
my
last
P-3
mission
in
the
summer
of
1991
and
retiring
as
a
Navy
captain,
I
led
a
bipartisan,
six-member
congressional
delegation
of
Vietnam
veterans
back
to
Southeast
Asia.
Among
our
six
members
was
Florida
congressman
Pete
Peterson,
a
former
Air
Force
pilot
who
was
shot
down
over
North
Vietnam
and
spent
more
than
six
years
as
a
POW
in
the
“Hanoi
Hilton.”
We
went
back
in
part
because
of
the
urging
of
veterans
and
veterans
organizations
who
were
convinced
that
hundreds
maybe
thousandsof
our
MIAs
were
being
held
in
captivity
in
that
part
of
the
world.
We
were
also
encouraged
by
the
administration
of
George
H.W.
Bush.
Our
mission
was
twofold:
first,
find
out
what
happened
to
the
MIAs
whose
bodies
were
never
recovered;
and,
second,
try
to
meet
with
the
incoming
leader
of
Vietnam
and
explore
with
him
the
possibility
of
moving
toward
normalized
relations
over
time
if
the
fate
of
the
MIAs
could
be
resolved.
We
began
our
ten-day
mission
in
Hanoi.
When
it
became
clear
after
a
few
days
there
that
the
new
leader
was
not
ready
to
meet
with
us,
we
worked
our
way
south
to
Saigon,
or
Ho
Chi
Minh
City,
before
going
on
to
Cambodia
and
Laos.
During
our
two
days
in
Cambodia,
a
criminal
ring
was
uncovered
there,
trying
to
extort
money
from
American
families
by
using
photos
that
originally
appeared
in
Soviet
news
publications
and
asserting
that
they
were
American
POWs.
Those
photos
found
their
way
to
the
covers
of
Time
and
Newsweek
and
ran
on
the
front
pages
of
every
major
newspaper
in
America
fanning
the
belief
that
many
of
our
missing
were
still
alive.
After
meeting
with
leaders
and
others
in
Cambodia
and
Laos,
we
headed
back
to
Saigon
for
a
final
round
of
meetings
and
interviews
before
preparing
to
depart
for
the
States.
On
the
morning
of
our
departure,
though,
we
received
a
call
from
Hanoi
saying
that
the
General
Secretary
Do
Muoi
could
meet
with
us
that
day
if
we’d
stop
by
Hanoi
on
our
way
home.
We
told
them,
“We’re
on
our
way!”
That
day,
we
met
with
Do
Muoi
in
a
spacious
drawing
room
of
a
lovely
house
in
Hanoi.
Staffed
by
only
a
couple
of
aides,
he
greeted
us
warmly,
and
I
began
to
introduce
each
of
my
colleagues
to
him.
Some
good
staff
work
had
turned
up
a
number
of
similarities
in
the
backgrounds
of
Do
Muoi
and
one
of
our
congressmen,
Wayne
Gilchrist
of
Maryland.
I
mentioned
as
much
to
Do
Muoi,
explaining
that
both
of
them
had
painted
houses
in
their
youth
and
later
became
teachers.
I
went
on
to
say
that
they
both
had
served
as
soldiers
in
combat,
had
been
seriously
wounded
in
combat
and
survived.
Finally,
I
pointed
out
that
both
of
them
had
sought
and
won
leadership
positions
in
the
governments
of
their
respective
countries.
By
then,
Do
Muoi
had
begun
to
focus
intently
on
Wayne
who
was
sitting
among
the
rest
of
us
some
ten
feet
from
the
General
Secretary.
The
Vietnamese
leader
then
asked
Wayne
where
he’d
been
shot,
and
Wayne
explained
that
the
bullet
entered
above
his
heart
and
emerged
above
his
shoulder
blade.
Do
Muoi
went
on
to
ask,
not
once,
but
twice,
if
he
could
see
the
wound.
Wayne
remained
seated,
speechless
like
the
rest
of
us.
Then,
Do
Muoi
got
up
from
his
chair,
walked
slowly
across
the
room,
leaned
down
and
gently
pulled
Wayne
to
his
feet.
He
proceeded
to
lift
the
back
of
Wayne’s
loosely
fitting
shirt
to
expose
the
still-ugly
scar.
Do
Muoi
then
traced
its
circumference
with
his
finger,
pulled
Wayne’s
shirt
back
down
and
embraced
him,
creating
one
of
the
most
emotional
moments
of
my
life,
and
bringing
with
it
an
opportunity
for
an
unexpected
breakthrough.
After
we
had
regained
our
composure,
we
sat
down
with
the
General
Secretary
and
began
reviewing
with
him
the
roadmap
to
normalized
relations
that
the
Bush
administration
had
given
to
us
just
in
case
a
moment
like
that
presented
itself.
The
roadmap
first
called
on
the
Vietnamese
who
were
meticulous
record
keepers
to
provide
access
to
Vietnam’s
war
museum
records
as
well
as
to
its
archives
to
our
investigators
so
that
they
might
search
for
clues
to
help
resolve
the
mysteries
of
our
MIAs
disappearance.
The
roadmap
called
for
the
U.S.
to
restore
telecommunications
with
Vietnam
if
they
would
take
this
preliminary
step.
With
the
strong
encouragement
of
our
six
member
delegation
and
the
tireless
efforts
of
Senators
John
McCain
and
John
Kerry,
the
Vietnamese
decided
to
take
the
step
and,
after
they
had
done
so,
telecommunications
were
restored
between
our
two
countries.
Later,
the
Vietnamese
would
take
many
additional
steps
providing,
for
example,
information
about
crash
sites
and
access
to
them.
Hundreds
of
excavations
followed,
along
with
the
ability
for
our
investigators
to
interview
a
large
number
of
eye
witnesses
across
the
country
to
gain
valuable
firsthand
accounts,
and
our
country
aided
Vietnamese
in
efforts
to
gain
closure
for
a
number
of
their
own
families
whose
loved
ones
remains
had
never
been
recovered.
With
each
step
that
the
Vietnamese
took,
the
U.S.
reciprocated.
Do
Muoi’
s
concerns
that
the
U.S.
might
somehow
move
the
goal
posts
faded
away,
and
a
more
trusting
relationship
between
our
two
countries
began
to
emerge.
In
1995,
diplomatic
relations
were
restored.
Three
years
later,
I
would
lead
a
trade
delegation
from
Delaware
to
Vietnam
and
several
other
Asian
countries.
As
we
stepped
off
of
our
plane
in
Hanoi,
we
were
greeted
by
our
new
ambassador,
former
Congressman
Pete
Peterson! In
1995,
full
diplomatic
relationships
were
established
between
our
two
countries,
with
Senators
McCain
and
Kerry
again
leading
the
way.
Since
then,
trade
between
our
two
countries
has
grown
dramatically.
America
is
now
the
number
one
export
market
for
Vietnamese
products.
American
exports
to
Vietnam
have
risen,
but
not
as
strongly.
When
talks
began
several
years
ago
about
the
possibility
of
forming
a
new
trading
bloc
that
would
stretch
from
the
Americas
to
Australia,
Japan
and
Malaysia,
Vietnam
signaled
its
strong
interest
in
joining
it. Ultimately,
the
Obama
administration
supported
Vietnam’s
inclusion,
but
made
it
clear
that
if
Vietnam
were
to
join,
it
would
have
to
agree
to
phase
out
the
tariff
and
non-tariff
barriers
that
it
has
relied
on
to
help
build
up
large
trade
surpluses.
Vietnam
has
agreed
to
do
so,
but
even
before
the
Trans
Pacific
Partnership
has
been
ratified,
they
took
steps
this
past
week
that
strongly
suggest
a
new
willingness
to
significantly
increase
their
purchase
of
American
products.
Vietnam
announced,
for
example,
that
it
would
purchase
100
new
Boeing
737s
in
a
deal
valued
at
more
than
$11 billion.
Vietnam
also
announced
that
it
will
buy
American-made
Pratt
and
Whitney
aircraft
engines
worth
$3
billion
over
the
next
several
years.
The
decision
by
the
Obama
administration
to
lift
the
restrictions
on
the
sale
of
a
broader
range
of
military
equipment
to
Vietnam
will
not
only
allow
that
country
to
strengthen
their
defensive
military
capabilities
in
the
face
of
Chinese sabre-rattling in
the
South
China
Sea,
it
will
also
serve
to
further
bolster
American
exports
to
Vietnam
for
years
to
come.
Some
critics
of
the
Obama
administration
have
voiced
concerns
that lifting restrictions
on
weapon
sales
gave
away
leverage
in
our
efforts
to encourage
Vietnam
to release
the
remaining
100
political
prisoners
in
this
country
of
nearly
100
million
people
and
increase
basic
human
rights
such
as
freedom
of
expression
and
assembly.
Others
including
the
President
and
some
Vietnamese
dissidents
note
that
the
sale
of
arms
to
Vietnam
will
only
take
place
on
a
case
by
case
basis.
Human
rights,
they
argue,
will
definitely
remain
a
part
of
the
equation.
Finally,
a
number
of
other
encouraging
announcements
emerged
during
President
Obama’s
visit
to
Vietnam. Vietnam
will
now
allow independent
unions
to form
and represent
workers
in
their
efforts
to
improve
wages
and
working
conditions.
Both
nations
also
agreed
to
continue
to
promote
student
exchanges.
And
a
longtime
dream,
the
establishment
of
a
fully
independent
university
in
Vietnam
the
Fulbright
University
is
now
on
the
road
to
becoming
a
reality.
We’ve
come
a
long
way
in
our
relationship
with
Vietnam
since
I
first visited Southeast
Asia during
the
middle
of
a
war
that
took 58,000
American
lives and
many
more
Vietnamese
lives.
Yet,
somehow,
we
seem
to
have
reached
a
point
where
both
countries
are
prepared
to
let
bygones
be
bygones
and
to
look
for
ways
to
work
together
in
ways
that
wouldn’t
have
seemed
possible
not
that
many
years
ago.
Another
pleasant
surprise
awaiting
Americans
in
Vietnam
is
the
genuine
warmth
of
the
people
there
toward
Americans.
It’s
hard
to
miss.
The
image
of
“The
Ugly
American”
is
long
gone,
hopefully
forever.
In
fact,
a
recent
poll
among
the
Vietnamese
revealed
that
78
percent
of
them
have
a
positive
view
of
America
and
Americans.
Ironically,
they
seem
to
like
our
country
more
than
some
Americans
do!
Let
me
close
with
the
same
words
that
I
used
several
times
while
addressing
audiences
in
Vietnam
this
week.
“If
you
want
to
travel
fast,
go
alone.
If
you
want
to
travel
far,
go
together.”
More
and
more
our
two
countries
are
electing
to
go
together.
If
we
do,
I’m
convinced
that
we’ll
end
up
traveling
a
lot
further
than
either
of
us
could
ever
go
on
our
own.
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